Nora and her husband, Josue, are originally from Puebla. They’ve been living in Tijuana for over a decade. They have three children, Edwin (16), Daniela (14), and Josue (10). For the first five or so years in Tijuana, they paid rent and lived off of Josue’s modest salary from collecting and recycling large appliances. The $75 per week got them by, most of the time, but it didn’t allow for any growth of their family or increase in their quality of life.
Nora’s vision was for more. Nora says that she longs for her kids “to grow up with values, finish college, and know the world.” That’s some big vision from Nora, who just finished middle school, and Josue, who just finished elementary school.
In 2018, Nora applied for a Doxa house and the following year it was built. When the group from Merced, CA turned over the keys of the finished house, Nora remembers thinking “it’s a blessing to receive this type of help and that there are people in this world who are willing to lend you a hand.” Immediately, Nora and Josue stopped paying rent and focused on paying off their piece of land. Nora explains that while “our economic situation was still a little tough, we were investing in something that is ours and not just paying rent.”
Nora and Josue were diligent and disciplined with their family’s finances. Taking the money that they would’ve spent on rent and using it for a better quality of life and more nutritious food to feed their growing children. Nora smiles proudly as she says that “recently, we finished paying off our piece of land, and can continue to increase our quality of life.”
Part of the qualification process for a Doxa house is the family completing 250 hours of volunteer service in their community. In Nora’s case, she volunteered at Unidos por Siempre. Since she has previous experience taking care of children from 5 months old to 10 years old, she was a natural fit. She would get the kids ready for school, do some cleaning, laundry, and be there to receive them upon their return. Nora would even help in the kitchen from time to time. She’s patient with kids, her calm demeanor and peaceful presence put them at ease. Nora is slow to talk, but quick to listen. She says “you can learn so much by just listening to these kids.” Nora sees the beauty in working with children, seeing them process the world around them, and grow through their experiences.
Even after Nora was done with the volunteer hours, she continued being a part of Unidos por Siempre. She found her niche there, and since her house was just a couple blocks away the logistics were easy. That is also how she found out about Doxa’s education scholarship program. After successfully applying for her three kids, they started to receive full scholarships to attend school. The tuition fees, uniforms, and school supplies were now less of a burden on the family’s finances. Josue also switched jobs to do basic construction, which came with a little pay raise. Now with growing children, Nora and Josue took that money and built a little addition onto their house. Edwin and Daniela were getting to the age where they needed their own spaces. They also were able to do some interior finishes, get cabinets, chest of drawers, and other furniture for the bedrooms.
Nora sees the values of “equality, empathy, respect, and companionship” lived out on a daily basis at Unidos por Siempre. What started out as volunteer hours and education scholarships for her kids has turned into her community. Nora explains that she doesn’t have any family in Tijuana, except for Josue and their kids. All of her relatives still live in Puebla. She made a conscious choice to raise her family here, where they can also participate in summer camp, eat meals from the soup kitchen, and attend community events. In addition, Nora shares about experiences when her kids got to meet volunteer groups from all over the United States who’ve come to serve in Tijuana. We get the privilege to journey alongside Nora and her family for these important and formative years.
Nora truly sees everything as an opportunity to accomplish her outsized vision. She’s found a community to raise her kids in that has values. She’s found a place where education is prioritized and there’s resources to succeed. She’s found a creative way to have her kids experience the world through meeting the wide variety of volunteers who come to serve. Nora sees her vision coming to life in real time! Not too bad for a young girl from Puebla, who just finished middle school. When asked how she feels about all this, Nora simply replies “blessed, but it’s also a lot of work!”